I've been trying to 'ignore the bad and praise the good' behaviour: I try to give choices rather than dictate things Let's see how that went
Me: You're welcome
Biryani: I'm not welcome
Me: Thankyou, good girl
Me: Do you want orange or red (plate)?
S Do we see in pixels?
H How do you know it's (the flight) been delighted (delayed)
B I'm too busy (if I ask her to do something not totally interesting)
B You're too busy (to say prayers, sleep etc)
B I'm not a brat, I'm (Biryani) (response to brother)
M If you think about it almost anything can happen, flower toothpaste for example.
H Is Postman Pat a Christiain? (after I'd explained what Rev Timms church was)